-james’ crush began the moment he saw lily on the train
-lily’s crush began when she was 16, but didn’t accept her feelings until she was around 17
-james made it very clear he liked lily in first year, but dropped it by second year
-he did occasionally make offhand comments or jokes about them dating, but everyone assumed they were jokes
-including lily, which is why it took her so long to accept her feelings
-and the fact that he was incredibly arrogant and cocky until sixth year-ish, (when and why she finally accepted her feelings)
-she was rather rude when he asked her out or made jokes, because she couldn’t let herself get hurt
-james was actually really hurt whenever lily was harsh because fuck, he really liked her
-after the prank, james realized he needed to mature
-he apologized to lily for the past on the train home at the end of fifth year
-she accepted his apology, even though she was incredibly surprised
-james talks about lily non-stop all summer, and sirius teases him relentlessly
-lily would go home every winter, spring, and summer complaining about james, but slowly stopped
-in sixth year they’re practicing patronuses in dada because there’s a war going on, and james watches as lily gets it, revealing a doe
-james flips the fuck out and refuses to go in front of the whole class because he knows how much lily hates to be embarrassed and this is huge for him and something she should know before anyone else
-the marauders don’t count
-little did he know, lily was watching through the door because she couldn’t understand why james potter had passed up a chance to boast in dada
-this is when he decides he wants to get to know her more, especially before he tells her and starts making a slow effort
-lily notices what he’s doing and immediately starts making an effort too
-in summer 1977, they spend a lot of time together because of their friends, but nothing happens with them other than lots of secret looks
-they go to diagon alley two weeks before school starts again, and lily asks james to florean fortescues’ with her as everyone splits up because she just can’t take it anymore
-she interrogates him and asks if his feelings were real, because she likes him and isn’t about to waste her time or get hurt later on like her parents hurt each other
-james is fucking flabergasted and sits there for a solid minute and then lily looks down and tries to hide her face and james is suddenly just like “FuCk” and leans across the table to kiss her, hard
-he asks her to be his girlfriend because fuck of course he likes her, he has for seven bloody years
-they’re both inexplicably happy
-they don’t tell anyone until they’re about to head home, and they just start snogging as a goodbye
-everyone is freaking the fuck out because ohmerlinjamesandlilyarefinallydating
-james goes out and buys a phone so he can call lily and hear her voice every day even if he doesn’t know how to use it
-james wasn’t sure what to do over the years because he couldn’t actually tell lily how he felt, but he had to talk about it so he began writing her letters about how he felt
-he wrote them at random times; whenever the feeling struck him
-turns out he loves writing and is damn good at it
-he wrote ones for his friends too, about what they meant to him
-he gave lily the letters for their one month anniversary and that’s the exact moment she knew she loved him, and told him so immediately
-james kept writing the letters, even after they were dating about important moments that happened to them
-james meeting petunia, meeting her parents, lily meeting his parents, james getting his mother’s engagement ring, whenever something big happened in the war, when james was about to propose, the day james proposed, when they got their own house, the night before their wedding, the night of their wedding, when his parents died, when her parents died, the day they found out about harry, the day harry was born, the day they went into hiding, his first birthday
-they all reminded lily how much james loved her and would do absolutely anything for her
-even die for her